RSSDoomed men don’. t marry your eight romances
Feb 19
and you care about each other more
you are in love, did not identify each other’s ideas you think you’re right, it seems that he dismissed; you’d him when he is not, he seems to be no difference when you are away, which means what? Second if you don’t care, how peers? Sometimes there is a love most of the other party, if in a healthy feeling, there will be the turn of the phenomenon, two people take turns to play the . role of pursuit and was pursuing, but if one always plays the suitor, such emotional sound, and long, you will love and thirst, you’ll feel each other’s control, you will feel anger, deception and pain.
the second, you love to the other potential
are you love each other’s potential, rather than each other really looks like, you love each other’s future might look like, that he is not your partner, but your transformation object. We ask every time he premarital counselling, if 50 years is going to change, you will be satisfied with it? If you’ve been hoping to change each other, feel satisfied, it is not love, but gambling, with the happiness of both bets. When you talk to people, to love and respect each other’s to be, rather than his future looks like, you can expect him to continue to grow, but now you have to be satisfied with his appearance.
three and you want to help each other
do you often feel that the other person is poor? Do you think you have a responsibility to help cheer each other up? You will be afraid if you depart from each other, he would stand against? If it is, I’m afraid you are a rescue. Rescue not looking for a suitable object, but to find an object he has compassion, can help. Looking for a trained trauma, fragile, depend on people, not to be love, hurt, by Mercy Health love you, he will give you a heart appreciation, such feelings like a rescue mission, rather than a sound, balanced feeling. The key to remember here is respect, object must be of you love you can respect the person, you must be proud of each other, don’t you rescue your partner, but you really know him.
four, treat each other as objects of worship
young female stars in love with Secretary of the Director, College Professor love, fall in love with the boss fell in love with the object of worship, this feeling is difficult to maintain, since unequal treatment between the two men. Both men and women must be treated equally, I am not referring to status, but cannot worship each other too much. The people will fall in love with God, generally low self-confidence, they felt very bad.
everybody this way, right? If you find that you are one of the traits attract each other, have to ask ourselves, if not the two large blue eyes, magnetic voice, if not the models, not playing basketball, I would be with him (her) together? Men’s physical appearance is the first productive forces?
six, short-term opportunities to be closely associated
you and each other to share a job, often with overtime, so you feel in love with each other. You go on holiday for three weeks, know a man for a holiday, you felt like falling in love. Be closely associated for short, refers to the exceptional circumstances conspired together, not General, such feelings not sustainable, because of short time be closely associated, can’t make you fully aware of each other’s individuality.
seven, and to rebellion only select this object
parents always with you stressed, to found a rich of object, happens you each boyfriend are is paupers; from small parents on on you discipline strictly, happens you each girlfriend are is casually; from small father on give earnest admonitions personally, pass incense is most important of thing, happens you of girlfriend is not cannot health, is do not want to health if you by selected of object, always order parents angry, You probably just want to rebel, what do you think it is important to prove to counterattack, when you can’t control your choices, you don’t really love each other, this affair is doomed to no result.
I left it in the end, because this cannot be regarded as feelings. Select the first premise is that having a woman is free. Free is free and you can contact, no marriage, no engagement, no fixed objects, did not sleep with other people, singles, only people with you.
if you fall in love with the man agreed to break up with another woman earlier; or he says he does not love that woman, he loves you; or accept your original object exists, it does not intend to break up, but he wants to stay with you for a while; or he just broke up, but may return, these are not free. Married people or objects, no matter what the excuse, the results are the same, you are doomed to heartbreak. Don’t forget, you just accepted another left over parts.